Fear is an incredible thing.  Sounds crazy, I know… but think about it.  Your fears can be the driving force in your life.  Fear of failure drives many to succeed and go the extra mile.  Fear of poverty makes us become better savers of money.  Fear of going to a “hell” or a “hellish” afterlife can cause us to become very kind and generous to people.

In my case fear of chronic illness, getting obese and unattractive, and fear of early aging all serve to drive my mission and purpose:  To research and find ways of getting healthier, stronger, happier, more balanced, more fit, and more youthful.

In my own quest of running away from my fears, I serve others and make a living by teaching, treating, adjusting, coaching, and speaking to others about how to avoid the things I fear.

THANK GOD FOR MY FEARS.

But fear has it’s downside–I’m sure you’re well aware.

Fear, in it’s extreme cases, can cause such a level of anxiety that instead of pushing you forward, it holds you back.

It holds you back from being the best you can be with all the talents you’ve been given.

There is something you know you really want to be doing—would LOVE to be doing with your life RIGHT NOW.  I know because there isn’t a person who I have met or coached that doesn’t have an inner voice that propels them to do something very cool with their lives, whether they’re aware of it or not.

Not only that, but add on the daily fears— fears that are so constant, and so part of who you are that you walk through your life in a constant state of panic, as though your life is in continuous danger.

The problem with this high level of anxiety is that if left unchecked and unresolved, it could build up to the point that you have a panic “attack” where you suddenly feel like you’re at the end of your rope.

If you’ve ever felt this way, you’re not alone.  Everyone feels varying degrees of fear, anxiety, and depressive states.  It’s all part of the human experience.

The question is, what are you going to do about it?

If you’re like most people in North America, you could end up in a medical doctor’s office, who has training in recognizing signs, symptoms and labeling states of disorders and different states of adaptive physiology.  But be aware…. the only treatments they are trained to offer in medical school are MEDICAL ones.

My biggest challenge in my chiropractic practice is seeing patients in chronic pain, who also happen to be on anti-depressant or anti-anxiety medication.

Though they come to me to “relieve their pain”, I find myself wanting to delve into their underlying emotional root causes in addition to their symptoms because I’m seeing more and more how the two are intimately linked together.

Luckily there is help for those seeking to start their inward–bound journey to awakening their own inner healer.

We have a “Law of Attraction for the Advanced Manifestor” seminar that will make you go inward like you’ve never gone before.  Please do not attend if you expect a “here’s the secret to happiness” seminar.  There’s no such thing.

But if you are one of those seeking an awareness and a path to overcome whatever fear that stands in your way to fulfilling your relationships, your career, you mind and body health, and your finances–that’s basically our target audience.

I was lucky enough to discover at a young age that our coping mechanisms for our fears, anxieties and stresses aren’t skills that ever get taught in school.  In school, I learned how to type, but I didn’t learn how to handle relationship conflicts with friends and family, and most importantly, myself.

My mission is to teach these skills to children and adults around the world in one-on-one and one-on-many form to empower people to realize that their thoughts, perceptions, lifestyle choices, actions, and foods that they eat play a more significant role in shaping their health than anything else in the world.

In the meantime, I’ll just keep using my fears to my (and your) advantage.

So what can YOU do about it?

Aside from going inward and learning more about yourself in courses and seminars, it would be wise for everyone to take the time and ponder on some empowering questions:

1—What is my greatest fear?

2—What are the benefits of me living with this fear? (They wouldn’t be there unless there were some benefit you’re getting out of it)

3—What is this fear costing me in my relationships, career, in my physical, emotional, and financial health?

The problem is, we seldom take the time to ask ourselves these important questions.  And our mind/body health can deteriorate because of it.

Click here to see date and location of “Law of Attraction for the Advanced Manifestor” class (scroll to bottom)

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“Hey boss!”

The word itself is enough to make me cringe.  Although people have a natural fear and public display of respect for whoever is the boss, you can’t help but resent anyone who holds the title.  As my career has developed into manifesting the ownership of one of Greater Vancouver’s largest Multi-disciplinary Alternative Wellness Clinics, I look back on the past 2 years of being “the boss” and I realize something:

No matter what books you read, or seminars you attend, you can never be REALLY ready for the challenges you face in that position.  Here’s what I have learned.

1)   Everyone is going to try to “get away” with whatever they can.  You can’t blame them, because we all are the same.  All you can do is to be clear on your boundaries and make your expectations clear.

2) Speak up when those boundaries have been crossed, or suffer the consequences later.

3) Become aware of your weaknesses, and delegate those tasks to others who are good at them.

4)  If you don’t prioritize your day with productive activities, then non-productive, energy draining tasks will take over your day.  Guaranteed.

5)  Become extremely comfortable not being liked.  No matter what you do… I repeat… NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO… people will like you and dislike you.  So embrace it and do what you love to do.  Side note:  Most people can’t handle not being liked, and thats why being the boss is not for the faint of heart.

6)  If you pay peanuts, you end up with monkeys.

7)  Humans require inspiration to take massive action.  People have blown themselves up and crashed airplanes into buildings because they they had something they believed in.  Become inspired, share your vision, and you’ll be surprised at how others will catch that inspiration and jump on board with your vision.

8-  Life is a struggle to stay in the present moment.  Every day, you will be bombarded with 30-50 opportunities to take you into past remembered guilts, or future imagined fears.  Learn the art of recognizing they are just illusions and all that matters is what is in front of you NOW.  Once you have mastered this art, write a book about it and make millions.  And please send me royalties for giving you the idea.

9)  The most successful people in the world are those that have understood how to combine their spiritual nature with their material nature, and kept both in harmonic balance.  Fall out of equilibrium, that is– try to give something for nothing or try to get something for nothing, and the universe will let you know by giving you a few gifts to make you aware of the disequilibrium.  Those gifts are: Stress, resentment, frustration, anxiety, and depression, fear, and guilt.  What better way to remind you to balance your give and take with the world than to make you extremely uncomfortable?

10)  Everyone is replaceable in your company except YOU.  Appreciate your co-workers, but never infatuate with them or make them feel that you are worthless without them.  Give anyone that power and they will eat you alive.  Put the needs of the company FIRST.  Nobody has a job without the company being healthy FIRST.  I used to think the opposite.  The school of hard knocks taught me otherwise.

11)  Being the boss is not as easy as you think it is.  My respect for successful entrepeneurs has skyrocketed because I KNOW how difficult it is.  The higher up you climb up that ladder, the more people can see your butt.  And it’s so easy to take shots at the one who’s at the top.

I know these are specific to “bosses” but when you look carefully at each of these and they can relate to us being the “boss” of our own lives.  These principles are universal, and they all address how important it is to respect and honor ourselves when we relate to others.  Failed businesses, failed relationships, and deteriorating health all result from people who don’t love themselves enough to put themselves on equal ground with others and speak up when they have needed to.

Any other pearls of wisdom, feel free to comment.

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Dogs and other animals intuitively know that when they wake up, they need to stretch the muscles which haven’t been in motion for several hours.  Quite intelligent little critters.  Are you that smart?

Even though I’ve caught my little Lucy doing some profound stretches,  I want you to watch some pretty smart dogs.

What inspired this blog is a string of patients that have come through my door recently… men and women in their 40’s to 60’s who have very limited range of movement, who are chronically stiff and sore, never been to a chiropractor, never maintained their spine, and are hoping for me to pull off a miracle overnight to fix their problems created by toxic and deficient movement lifestyles.  Good luck!

Chiropractic care is about one thing, and it’s really quite simple:  Creating sufficiency of movement in the spine to allow for a clear neurological connection so the brain and body work in harmony.

When the spine doesn’t move, chaos will ensue.  Compound that each day, each week, each year, each decade.  Congrats! You now have a “bad back” that’s “a genetic problem” because your mom and dad had the same problem, and so do all your siblings.  ”There’s nothing anyone can do about it.  You might need surgery, or you’ll end up in a wheelchair,” is what one of my patients were told by their GP.

Those are the people who have completely ignored the symptoms all their lives, and treated it by taking medications and not listening to their bodies.  I feel sorry for them.  My heart bleeds, because now they are having surgeries, and spending a great deal of money at my office (which is worth every penny by the way and all of this was preventable by stretches, exercise, and regular maintenance chiropractic adjustments.

Don’t let anyone convince you it’s out of your control and it’s genetic, nothing will work and take drugs and surgery.  Get moving, and get assistance with a chiropractor that you trust.  AND GET YOURSELF MOVING.  Here’s where you begin.

One of the things I teach my patients is to take an active role in their recovery, rather than be a passive recipient.  Stretching is the most important way to help us both on the road to recovery, and for maintaining the health of your brain/body connection.

What stretches can I do to help keep my spine moving correctly?

First of all, get started on yoga.  Check with your chiropractor to see if you are clear to go.  Your joints might be so stiff you’ll need a few weeks of movement-corrective care before you’re ready.

If you insist on not doing yoga, and you want to continue to be sedentary, at least you can get started with these few stretches to help you.  Go at your own pace (and at your own risk!)  Remember to listen to your body.  Go easy.  Start slow.

The Downward Dog

Try it… but keep in mind a couple things:  Be relaxed in your arms and between the shoulder blades.  Let your neck hang. Lift your hips skyward until you feel the achy goodness in your lower lumbar spine.  Heaven and hell, all packed into one beautiful pose.

The Cobra

One of my favourite yoga instructors, Islena Faircrest of Newport Yoga, gave a great description in one of her classes of what you should be imagining and emulating:  ”Imagine your body as a curved cylinder, and your intention is to elongate that cylinder.”  Poetic.  You have no idea what this stretch, when done on a regular basis, can do to slow down the aging process in the spine.  ”Osteoarthritis” and “Degenerative Disc Disease”is a reality for everyone… you can’t escape it.  But you can sure keep it at bay for a lot longer than your average middle aged guy.  Just make sure you watch out for the “turtlehead”.  Keep your shoulders back, and your neck sticking out.

The QL stretch

Perform this one, and develop it slowly.  Let go, and go to your limit.  Work on expanding that limit.  P.S.  You can always improve on this stretch.  You never “really” get there.  You can always be more calm, more extended, more present and aware of every muscle.  That’s the cool part of yoga.  It’s like golf if done properly.  You can always improve in those ways.  You can have an off day, too when your mind isn’t clear.

There’s a whole bunch more, but I hope you’re getting the point.  You don’t have to be a yogi to learn to appreciate the art, science, and spiritual aspects of stretching.

Make it a part of your life.  Don’t think you can live a near normal, healthy, and active life if you don’t make stretching a part of it.  Don’t let my little Lucy make you look dumb!

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This amazing discovery can be enjoyed out of the comforts of your own

• Prevents up to 91% of cases of obesity and type 2 diabetes (obesity and diabetes costs $519 MILLION DOLLARS per DAY in the U.S)
• Prevents up to 50% of all cases of Heart Disease (Heart disease kills 950,000 people per year, and accounts for 41% of all deaths, and costs 501 MILLION DOLLARS per DAY in the U.S)
• Reduces the risk of stroke by 25-30%
• Prevents up to 50% of all stroke deaths
• Reduces Congestive Heart Disease deaths by 63%
• Reduces hospital readmission for heart failure patients by 71%
• Normalizes blood pressure
• Reduces the risk of developing high blood pressure
• Restores and maintains heart and blood vessel health
• Restores and maintains normal cholesterol and triglyceride levels
• Reduces risk of breast cancer by up to 60%
• Reduces pancreatic cancer in overweight people by 50%
• Reduces lung cancer in smokers by up to 72%
• Reduces melanoma cases by up to 72%
• Prevents up to 50% of colon cancer
• Reduces risk of and improves rheumatoid and osteoarthritis
• Prevents osteoporosis (just the fractures from osteoporosis costs $38 million per DAY in the U.S)
• Increases strength, flexibility, balance
• Decreases gall bladder removal by 20%
• Decreases gallstone formation
• Improves digestion and decreases indigestion
• Improves bowel function and elimination
• Increases immune system function
• Increases macrophage (anti-tumor) activity and anti -oxidant levels
• Decreases all cause mortality by 67% in general population
• Decreases all cause mortality by 50% in 61-81 year-olds
• Prevents up to 47% of cognitive impairment
• Prevents up to 62% Alzheimer’s and 52% of dementia
• Provides better physical function in older adults
• Decreases chance of ever being in a nursing home
• Decreases rate of aging
• Enhances learning capacity up to 12 times
• Increases Serotonin levels (”feel-good” hormone) many are taking prescription pills to enhance
• Decreases Depression by 20% (including relapses)
• Decreases stress and stress hormones (that break down the body)
• Increases Growth and Healing Hormones
• Decreases Risk of weight gain and obesity

You might be asking what can do all these things, and where the heck can I get it?

(Ref: Booth et. al.  Waging war on physical inactivity.  Using modern molecular ammunition against an ancient enemy.  Journal of Applied Physiology 93:3-30.)

This amazing “Cure” is Physical Activity and Exercise. Most of the studies that were referenced in this Journal article were referring to studies looking at WALKING FOR 30 MINUTES, 5 DAYS PER WEEK!

The saddest part of what I see every single day in my office is when

people are coming to me with all sorts of chronic conditions, and I see on their case histories illnesses and disorders created because they don’t get out and exercise.  They’re fat, on all sorts of prescription pills, diabetic, and don’t get any exercise, and always seem to be needing to go to the doctor.   I’m not even talking about going to the gym either.  I’m talking about a simple walk each day.  It’s getting increasingly difficult for me to be politically correct and keep my mouth shut with certain people.  I started blogging as my own therapy for dealing with those types of patients, so I don’t p__ off too many people and drive them away from my office.  It isn’t working.  People are still looking for that Miracle cure/quick fix for their mind and body disorders created because they don’t eat, move and think well.

Good for the Brain, too?

We all know why exercise is good for the heart and lungs.  But why does it affect your mood, your brain, and mental health?  Because in your Spine and Nervous system, there are receptors involved in movement and pleasure pathways, and they are connected to your brain.  When movement in your spine is stimulated, the brain receives stimulation which acts as nutrients that are needed to function in a normal healthy manner.  Without this “nutrient”, an optimum state of health is not  possible.  That’s also patients feel a sudden mood change when receiving chiropractic care.  Chiropractic adjustments help to restore that connection between brain and body and to stimulate those pathways (through mechano-receptors).

I want to make a correction:  Walking is not a “cure” for any medical condition.  We’re so immersed in an allopathic, treatment-based medical society that we get ourselves sick and dis-eased, then we look for answers on the outside.  What I’m trying to tell you is that we get sick in the first place because we haven’t done what’s necessary for our cells to express health and wellness.  ”Medical conditions” (what really does that mean anyway?) occur because of a deficiency in movement.

Healing can be defined as any movement towards balance and homeostasis– and this movement can begin with a simple half hour walk per day.  It costs you nothing, and it will save your life.  That’s why you won’t hear about it on any advertisement.

Show me a pill that can do all that.

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Are you going through a difficult time?  A transition?  Change in relationship status, death of a loved one?  Maybe you’re just lost, or just plain angry and frustrated.  You’re not alone.  We are the most depressed society in the world.  The use of anti-depressant medication is on the rise, especially in North America.  We have the majority of wealth, and among the highest quality of life on the entire planet, yet we’re the most depressed and the most medicated.  Why?

Please tell me if I’m way off base here:  My observation of people over the past 10 years of being in practice, is that our problems exist because we’re looking in the wrong direction and asking ourselves the wrong questions.   Allow me to explain.

Any time you turn on a reflective consciousness, that is, you turn and observe yourself in the moment, you have awakened to a spiritual awareness. It happens every time you look in a mirror.  Observe yourself reading these words.  Who is it that is looking at you?  Answer:  You have reached a present state of “soul awareness”.  You were in the “now” looking from the perspective of your higher self.   The cool part is, that no matter what your faith or religion is, or even if you don’t believe in God, we all have this one thing in common:  Our ability connect, disconnect, and re-connect with our higher self—the part of you that transcends any labels one may put on it.  Titles like “Buddhist” “Christian” or “Atheist” don’t change the awareness.

I have spoken to many people while coaching or in my seminars, or in my office and they share with me their frustrations about their lives, their health, and their relationships.  I go through similar frustrations as well in my own personal life.  But I’ve noticed something…. Each and every single time we are frustrated it’s because we have stopped looking from the right perspective.  We are disconnected because we aren’t being reflective.  We are immersed in our own values and beliefs, and projecting them onto a universe that really couldn’t care less what our beliefs and priorities are.  Or conversely, we’re injecting other peoples’ beliefs onto ours and beating ourselves up for not living up to them.  When we do either (projecting our values or injecting other’s values), we are giving our power away to outside voices and opinions.  We are being run by fear and guilt and only looking from the self(ego) perspective.  We’re tuned out to who we really are and lose control over our thoughts, emotions, and our lives.

From an enlightened, awakened, aware, soul conscious view, there exists no problem, and nothing is taken personally, because you see yourself as connected to a larger consciousness.   When you are in that moment, getting rejected by your peers for not thinking like them doesn’t matter.  Your family’s or friends’ disappointment of you is deafened by a stronger inner knowing of what you want to be, do, and have.  You recognize your own genius and you’re not seeking approval.

Einstein said, “You can’t solve a problem with the same level of thinking that created it.”  How true.  The moment you turn your awareness to the level of your soul or spirit through reflective consciousness, the problem changes, because your perspective, or perception changed.  It is only through “becoming the observer to the problem” that we can begin the process of finding a true solution.

The essence of true wisdom is the ability of seeing both sides of an event.  It gets easier with practice.  I’m starting to get good at it, although I falter quite often.  I’m now teaching others to do the same.  The results are amazing when you be come aware that from a “higher-self” perspective, you get both pleasures and pains simultaneously.  This awareness helps us understand rather than react to the events of life.  With poise, we create our lives rather than being victims under the control of our environment.  When you have a spiritual perspective, you are not seeking pleasure and avoiding pain, but embracing both in the pursuit of your mission.  I’ve seen people who are labeled “chemical imbalance” (as if there was a way to test this imbalance!) come to such a profound realization that it was their perception creating their condition, they were moved to tears of gratitude and were set free from their emotional states.

Traditionally, the questions we ask ourselves when we are going through challenges have been these ones (let me know if it sounds familiar to you):

“Why does this happen to me all the time?”

“Why do I always get the short end of the stick?”

“Why can’t I just be happy?”

“What’s wrong with me?”

“Why am I such a loser?”

“Why doesn’t he/she just change?”

“Why can’t I be normal like everyone else?”

Great questions to ask, if you want your answer to be a disempowering one—and keep you in victim mentality, putting your life in the hands of others to create, shape, and mold.  The answers you or someone else might come up with (and I’ve heard so many):

“It’s because I was abused”

“It’s because your/my husband is a jerk”

“It’s because I/you have a chemical imbalance”

“It’s because my parents did a horrible job”.

All these come with great stories….and limiting belief systems.  Whether it’s true or not, if you believe it, then it becomes your reality.  Your mind is capable of making it so.

If you’re going through a challenge in your life right now, or are still living in the past from events you can’t seem to get over… Here’s a more empowering way to begin.  Start by asking yourself these questions:

What is the most important thing in my life right now?  What is my purpose?

How does my current life challenge (or past event) serve me in the pursuit of my values and purpose?

These questions force you to change your focus into a spiritual one, and take your conscious awareness to the next level—the only level that can solve your problem.

I have the misfortune of seeing too many people who have unresolved inner and outer conflicts going which have a tendency to manifest as mental and physical health problems.  They’ve been labeled “chemical imbalanced” or “hormone imbalanced”… as if their physiology has made a mistake, or they have some genetic flaw.  They’re prescribed pills to make the problem go away.  The symptoms may resolve, but the underlying conflict remains buried.  Luckily, with a little digging, with questions such as these, there is hope.  And it all comes back to a shift in perception and beliefs.  Without it, the problem remains.

And the purpose of the problem?  Look carefully, and you’ll see that it is the universe’s way to get you to love yourself more so you can turn your attention off yourself and serve others… no matter what your story is.  You instantly free yourself from the “Prison of Self” by doing this.  Ironically, in order to forget yourself, you have to become yourself.  And when you become yourself, your inner drive comes out, and people can feel it pouring from every cell of your body.  And the cells of your body start to work in harmony again. 

We just have to learn to ask the right questions.  Questions that bring us to gratitude for our problems.  Not easy to do, but I guarantee, it’s the answer to all of your problems.  Then we can be grateful for what we have.  No matter what you’re going through.  

For those who STILL have troubles finding gratitude in their current life situation, who still want to run their great story as to why they shouldn’t be grateful, I’ve added a video clip that will cure you.  

                                              

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By the time 8-9 pm rolls around, the majority of people are looking for an answer for their insane food cravings.  We are desperately looking for something to chase away the junk food monster.  Desserts, chocolate, chips, cheesies, and fast foods all do the trick… temporarily, then you finish an hour later feeling tired, sluggish, indigestion and heartburn.  Where does it all begin?  Well, it’s quite simple.  We’re being marketed at a very young age, where our behaviors and food choices are rooted.  Check out these commercials:

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with a junk food company wanting to make a profit.  That’s the nature of the capitalist, free-market system.  But buyer beware.  If you are living unconsciously, like over half the North American population, you can understand why we are the sickest species on the planet, obesity, cancer, chronic illness are all on the rise, and our health care system is under crisis.  But when you first become aware, you then have the foundation to change.  Without this awareness, you have no chance.

Sugar is more addictive than Cocaine

According to a recent study from the University of Bordeaux, An astonishing 94 percent of rats who were allowed to choose mutually-exclusively between sugar water and cocaine, chose sugar. Even rats who were addicted to cocaine quickly switched their preference to sugar, once it was offered as a choice. The rats were also more willing to work for sugar than for cocaine.  The authors also suggest that the reason why is because our taste buds have not adapted from ancestral times when refined sugars were not available.  

Another study from Princeton observed that when they removed the refined sugar from the diets of lab rats, these poor little animals experienced teeth chattering and increased anxiety levels– kinda like a junkie coming off heroin.  Make no mistake, this stuff is addictive, and it all starts with the formulas and processed stuff we feed our infants.  

Sugar stimulates reward centers in the brain, much like hard addictive drugs, alcohol, and nicotine.  My personal opinion is that we are a society that is addicted to sugar.  Not just refined sugar.  I’m talking about other forms of sugar as well that are just as harmful…white flour, carbs, grains, like rice and potatoes… These are also full of sugar, and our ancestors didn’t use them!   If you don’t believe me that you could be possibly addicted to sugar… try going off sugar, carbohydrates, and white flours/pastas for 10 days.  Bet you can’t do it.  It’s so difficult to find food without it as well– they’re even salad dressings, canned beans, mayo, pickles and ketchups.  

I recently went to a theme park in California on a holiday.  As I looked around and saw obese people all around me, I realized why–there was nothing available to eat that wasn’t full of grease, carbs, and sugar.  The entire family was obese, and all were walking around with huge soda containers.  (They probably blame it on genes, so choices don’t matter).  Even though it’s not politically correct to say, I felt so bad, because I couldn’t find anything to eat that was actually REAL food– fruits, veggies, salads… stuff that our bodies were designed to digest.  These poor people don’t have too many choices and they don’t even know it.  (The average North American eats in excess of 10 pounds of sugar each month.)

 

Why is that?  Because the theme park owners are geniuses… They know everyone’s addicted, so what’s the best way to keep them happy, spending money, and coming back for more, all the while making sure their costs stay low?  Easy… sugars, fats, and grease.  All processed foods that store well, that are the cheapest to buy, and keep people temporarily happy (while we die slowly).

I’ve found some neat ways to moderate my sugar cravings, and I would love to share them with you.  It’s not easy– nothing worthwhile ever is.  But the more you know, the more you research, the easier it gets.  You can get started with a few of these tips:

1) DO NOT DEPRIVE YOURSELF.  This may sound counter-intuitive, but think about your last attempt to stop eating those foods.  Didn’t last too long, did it?  That’s because your guilt feeds your cravings.  Guilt in general is caused by a negative memory of the past–  That in itself is a stressor, which lowers dopamine and serotonin levels, which causes us to panic and look for a quick fix… So you binge, which leads to another guilt, and the cycle repeats.  Don’t deprive.  Give yourself permission by having one day a week that is a “cheat day”.

2) Before you consume your guilty pleasure, eat something/do something that moves you in the direction of balance.  Have an apple, fruit salad, tossed salad, pushups, crunches, 30 minute walk.  Anything that is a healthy activity.  Do it FIRST.  I recommend this to all my patients who are trying to transform their food intake.  This helps to lower stress hormone levels, which is one of the underlying cause of you going after those foods in the first place.

3) Exercise.  Exercise has been shown to lower levels of Leptin, a hormone which has been found in excess in obese people, and shown in studies to cause appetite gain.  Sorry guys. You gotta get out exercise.  If you are sedentary, start by walking at least a half hour a day.  Exercise also lowers stress hormone levels, which are another reason why you crave fat and sugar.

4) Start adding in more raw stuff and healthy snacks. Believe it or not, there’s some amazing tasting stuff that is healthy.  You just have to look.  Buy a high powered blender and snack on smoothies, full of fiber and natural sugars.  Here’s just one of many websites which give you great recipes that actually taste good.  When you are at the supermarket, go one week without buying any of the junk.  Don’t have it in the house, and stock up and snack on healthy snacks, dehydrated fruit, and smoothies.  Increase the content of your raw, whole foods, and eat them first.  You’ll notice your waistline start to trim down within 4-6 weeks.  I now eat 50% raw as opposed to 10% a few months ago.

5) Cut out your soda.  Seriously.  After a month of going off it, you realize you didn’t need it in the first place.  A can of soda contains 8-10 teaspoons of sugar.  Would you put all that in your mouth in a single sitting?  Well we do it every day, and we’re getting sicker because of it.  Imagine feeding that to your dog.  You wouldn’t do that, would you?  Why?  Because the dog will get sick.  Well so are you… you’re slowly getting sick on that stuff.  Check this out.  Here’s a young lady who’s helping people change their eating habits.  I’m on her side.

 

And by the way… side note.  Artificial sweeteners like splenda and other products containing aspartame are worse.  There’s enough research out there to show unequivocally that they are toxic and should be avoided at all costs.  It’s actually better to have sugar than those products.  Stevia is a great alternative… but after you’ve gone off, you’ll see that you don’t really NEED it.

Good luck, and happy healthy eating.  Any other ways that have worked for you to overcome your cravings?  Please don’t hesitate to share.  I recently saw a bunch of people who I haven’t seen in months… They all asked me how I got so much trimmer.  I was sharing with them all this information, so I decided to blog about it.  Hope it helps you become healthier and live longer.

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Lately, I’ve been seeing a lot of people in my office come in with severe pain caused by injuries while working out.  Others come in with huge postural distortions, especially in the upper back and chest, all attributed to 2 main problems:

1) Working out with a spine that doesn’t function properly

2) Not being aware of the correct stretches and exercises to correct your postural distortions.

I’ll address #2 first.

Look at this picture:

I had a patient come in yesterday who has a similar posture to this photo.  Does this look familiar to you?

He has had a 5 year history of burning pain in his upper back and neck.  He was hoping I could fix it.  We talked about exercise, and he said he worked out religiously.  Hmmm.  Interesting.

I asked him what exercises he did.  Can you take a wild guess what exercises he’s been focussing on?  The classic ones people do when they haven’t really had the training to know what to be working on.  Chest ,arms, and abs.  That’s about it.

As a result, his pecs are strong and tight, and his scapular muscles in his upper back (rhomboids, levator, traps) are loose and weak.  Result?  Well. Just look at the picture.  Or maybe look in a mirror.  I would say that 90% of people who don’t exercise or live consciously are to some degree in the same boat.  Why is this?

Simple:  Lifestyle.  In school, we sit 8 hours a day in a chair.  Not exactly what our bodies were designed to do.  Our Ancestors sure didn’t sit in chairs the way our children do.

 

Then, we finish school.  We go to work.  Most of us sit again, on our commute to work, then we sit at work, commute back home, and then sit again in front of the TV.  When we are living these movement-deficient lifestyles, our spines, which house our central nervous system gets stuck, and mal-aligned.  This puts a great strain on our discs, nerves, and muscles.  Slowly, as we deteriorate, our bodies fatigue and start to scream at us in the form of pain, numbness, tingling, and dis-ease.  Slowly, as a result of this lack of motion, arthritis sets in, and so does degenerative disc disease, all are which use up our health care system dollars by being “treated” with drugs and surgery.  Since our parents lived the same lifestyles and developed the same conditions, we can easily be convinced that our problems are “genetic”.  I see so many patients who consult me as a last-ditch effort after they have been convinced by another health professional that they developed this problem from their parents, it’s almost like a broken record when I see them.  

Solution:

When working out, focus more on doing rowing and upper back exercises to counterbalance the effects of gravity and poor posture.  

 

These exercises are also to be done in combination with stretching your pectoralis muscles to assist in loosening them up and bringing the shoulders back.

This exercise I showed him, using a simple rubber band he could use at the office, holding the bands on both ends while pushing it against  the soles of his feet, all the while sitting at his desk.  You pull on the rubber bands or the pulley at the gym so that your shoulder blades pinch together like in this picture.

(Note, an advanced version of this exercise can be done with dumbells while leaning forward with a straightened lower back, pulling the shoulder blades back)

This must be done consistently, and to a greater degree than his chest exercises.  I then showed him a stretch he could do in a doorway, by leaning forward through the door while his arms and elbows leaned against the door frame:

These two together, done consistently each day (back exercise every other day) will bring your posture back to normal within a short period of time, especially when performed in combination with chiropractic care.  I have now put my patient on a 6 week exercise program, combined with a game plan of weekly Chiropractic care to get him there quicker.  Spinal adjustments help by loosening up the stuck (subluxated) joints in the upper back so the joints and muscles can move more freely and hold in the correct position easier.  Not to mention re-connect his brain and his body again.  His pain will be gone within the next 4 weeks.  

Can I just correct my spine with exercise?

Last week, a lady came in from an injury sustained while doing yoga.  While I’m a huge proponent of yoga, I send you to Yoga with a warning.  If you try to bend, twist, or move in any direction on a spine that doesn’t function properly, you could be in trouble.  I’ve seen it too many times… People wanting to “fix” themselves with exercise end up injuring themselves.  Remember to keep this in mind while exercising:

Your entire spine needs to be moving freely, especially one vertebrae with respect to another.

Look at this picture.  The model on the left shows a normal spine.  The one on the right shows a subluxation– a joint in the spine that has a deficiency of movement.  Subluxations are interesting in that they both cause injuries, and injuries/overuse can cause subluxations.  Please note, this picture is an exaggeration for illustration purposes.  Subluxations are often more subtle than this.  God forbid, if you allow yourself to get to this point, there’s no way you’ll be exercising.  You’ll be flat on your back.

They can be both excruciating, and more often than not, painless.  Either way, subluxations disrupt the normal functioning of the body.  Subluxations are an interference to the brain’s attempt at communicating with the body.  

Your body is composed of over 50 trillion cells, and health can be considered as all these cells working harmoniously together in concert.  Your brain is the conductor.  How does your brain do the conducting?  Through the nervous system.  

Exercise is critical to keep you healthy… and you also need to maintain a healthy lifestyle– eating real, whole foods that are more alive than dead, maintaining a positive focus in all areas of life, to grow, to learn, to expand your consciousness in some way, to make a contribution to the world, and to make sure you are getting plenty of rest, and healthy movement in the form of exercise.  Just make sure you’re doing them properly, focusing on the right areas mentioned above.  

Keeping a clear neurological connection between the brain and cells of your body is critical to ensure that each and every day you are growing stronger rather than weaker, and you are able to get the most out of your healthy lifestyle choices.   It takes time, effort, and a deliberate focus to be healthy with correct posture.  It’s not luck or genes that determines your health!

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Headaches vary from a small nuisance to a debilitating problem that gets in the way of you living your life to the fullest and doing what you want to do. The prevailing belief you will hear from pharmaceutical ads is that headaches are an unwanted, unnecessary part of life you can simply sweep under the rug by popping pills. So you pop in a pill and voila! If you’re lucky, the headache is gone. Some people repeat this process over and over again, until they find themselves popping 3-5 pills per week!

According to an article in 2001 in the New England Journal of Medicine, those who took aspirin or Tylenol at least twice a week for 2 months — were two to three times more likely to have the beginning stages of chronic kidney failure, compared with individuals who did not use these painkillers on a regular basis.

Whatever your reasons for taking over-the-counter or prescription pain killers, they NEVER treat the cause of your pain. They work to silence the body’s attempt to wake you up to your toxic or deficient lifestyle. To let you know that the way you have been living isn’t right, and needs to change or else further damage will ensue.  We treat pain like it is a nuisance rather than a wise message.  Here are the most likely reasons I’ve found that my patients will present with headaches: Which one applies to you?

1. Tension headaches are the most common type of headache. Tension headaches result from muscle tension, usually in the neck muscles. These can be thought of as neck headaches. Tension headaches are often correctly diagnosed by your doctor. Their solution will most likely be a pill. The cause is not a lack of pills in your system. The cause of this headache is from improper posture, stress, resulting in lack of motion in the upper back and neck joints in the spine.
2. Migraine headaches are commonly diagnosed. However, I find that they are often over- diagnosed. That is, patients often don’t have migraines when they have been told they do. Additionally, many patients diagnose themselves with migraines – often incorrectly.  A few key symptoms (not all the symptoms) that help to diagnose migraines are: Pain occurs on one side of the head (most migraines are only on one side of your head at a time), light and sound sensitivity (i.e. you want to go into a dark room with no sound), or an aura (a sensation that you are about to get a headache) that lasts for 10–30 minutes. These key symptoms can be accompanied by non-specific symptoms of nausea, vomiting, or anorexia (loss of appetite), and they can be excruciating.
3. Sinus headaches are commonly self-diagnosed – and usually incorrectly. A sinus headache is caused by pressure built up in the sinuses. This happens when you are sick — specifically, with a sinus infection. You will have a runny nose, postnasal drip, and pressure. It will seem as if you have a very bad cold. I can’t tell you how many people have no sinus or cold symptoms – none – yet think that they have a sinus headache.So what kind of headache do many of these non-sinus or non-migraine sufferers have?
4. TMJ headaches. TMJ stands for tempormandibular joint (the name of the jaw joint). The condition is called TMJ dysfunction or TMD (tempormandibular dysfunction). Basically, your jaw apparatus is out of balance and the jaw muscles are in spasm. TMJ headaches are a type of muscle-tension headache. If you have temple headaches you probably have TMJ headaches. I don’t care how many people (or doctors) tell you that you have migraines. TMJ headaches are misdiagnosed most of the time!!! (You can have both types of headaches as well.) The good news: you can find a very effective treatment for TMJ headaches and other headaches if you read further.

There are more uncommon types (cluster headaches, etc) but these are the ones you will most likely encounter.

Think about a smoke alarm going off. When you hear this signal, it’s purpose is to let you know to take action to correct what’s causing the alarm to go off… Put out the fire! What if you pull the plug on the alarm so you don’t hear it anymore? Is the problem solved? No—your house will eventually burn down.

That’s what we are doing when we silence our body with pain killers. The headache goes away and we assume we’ve successfully eliminated it. WRONG!!!! The cause is still there.

So what can you do?

 

Heat, stretching the neck muscles, getting a massage, relaxing, dealing with your stress, and correcting your sitting posture do help.

 

But the spinal joints that are stuck are STILL STUCK! Chiropractic care works to correct “stuck joints” (called Subluxations) and get them moving again through the adjustment process. On a daily basis we see chronic headache sufferers find the relief they are looking for—a relief of the cause.

Part of your care is also stretches and exercises and advice on how to prevent them from coming on in the first place. An ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure…. And the most important part of prevention is to get a grip on why you are stressed in the first place.  Resentment, anger, frustration, fear, anxiety… all underlying causes of your stress.  Find ways of coming to terms with it, otherwise every single treatment you do is just a band aid.  Always remember that your body speaks out to give you messages about how you have been thinking, moving, and eating.  Appreciate the messenger!  

Think right, eat right, and move right, and maintain a clear neurological connection.  It really doesn’t have to be more complicated than that.

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So you know you need to make some changes.  Gotta lose the gut for the summer, gotta quit smoking, gotta exercise.  Gotta start saving money. 

I’m going to share with you 101 tips to help you make a shift in your life to make the changes you already know you “should” be doing but haven’t gotten around to… in every area of life, not just physical.  Even some tips that will help you in financial and social situations.  I will be expanding on these tips on future blogs.  

Since true health requires a balance of all areas of life, I will give you tips on every area of your life.  I will share pearls of wisdom I have learned from my teachers and my research.  These are tools that I have applied and have been proven to be reproducible– that means that if they work for me, they will work for you.  I am in no wise an expert in all matters.  I’m a student of Health and Wellness.

 You may not agree with everything I say.  I don’t expect you to.  If I challenge one of your beliefs, by all means, stand up for yourself and make a comment.   By the way– all these tips are just as much for me as they are for you.

Eating Well:

1.  Drink more clean water.  Your mother was right.  Instead of FIRST focussing on cutting down the sodas, try to just drink more water.  Drink water all day and watch your energy levels rise. You like the sodas a bit too much? No problem…  I’ll show you an easy way (#5) to get over your soda addiction.

2.  Add raw fruit and vegetable content to your meals gradually.  And make sure you eat it before the cooked stuff.

  I used to eat 10% raw, now I eat 33-50% raw, depending on the meal.  I’ve lost weight and haven’t hungered or deprived myself at all.  It was so easy I’m going to write an article about it.  Stay tuned.

3.  Give in to your munchies.  Don’t deprive yourself.  You’re not an idiot, you know junk food is bad for you….Just make sure you start out with fruit or veggies.  Have plenty of frozen grapes prepared.  Have baby carrots and dip, with broccoli and cauliflower ready for your munchie cravings.  Cut up apples and throw some lemon juice on them, sprinkle some cinnamon.  Have an orange.  Eat those foods FIRST.  You’ll be amazed after a while you will be craving those healthier foods.  You actually survive if you don’t eat junk.  Amazing discovery for me.  You’ll crave less wheats, carbs, and glutens.

4.  When making your meal choice, stop and think.  Ask yourself “how am I going to feel 2 hours after I’m finished?”  Nobody eats a grilled chicken salad and says “oh man, what the hell did I do to myself?”

5.  Stop Drinking your Calories.  Increasing water is one way…. Wanna know how I got over my soft-drink addiction?  Just watch this video and you’ll see how.  

6.  Get a juicer or blender.  Yes.  It’s a pain in the butt to clean.  I’m telling you it will save your life.  In the morning, throw in carrots, apples, beets, strawberries, oranges, you name it.  You drink a tall glass of all that…, you can feel your cells saying “ahhh… finally some nutrition.  We don’t have to work as hard, you jerk.”  Your blood sugar levels go up gradually, and you won’t feel a crash.  Your food cravings will be GONE.  You can last until lunch with that. Try it for a week.

7.  Treat yourself as though you are a child, animal, or automobile that you love.  You would put in only the best food and fuel and care, time, energy, resources, and money.  Why don’t you do the same for yourself?

8.  Take a high powered multi-vitamin supplement.  That’s one thing you don’t go cheap on.  Even if you eat organic, chances are, the food you are eating has been in transit for a long time and they lose their nutrients.  Those in tropical climates have an advantage, but you gotta get your anti-oxidants.  Email me if you want suggestions for the products I use.  

9.  Remember the good fats!  Essential Fatty Acids are not ingested in sufficient amounts in our diet.  We REQUIRE it in sufficient amounts to avoid skin, hair, and nerve-related ailments (among a zillion others).  There’s great research out there that EFA’s in the form of  fish oils have a great results in “treating” depression.  The truth is, it’s not a treatment for that!  If you have a deficiency, you could easily become depressed.

10.  Drink alkalizing agents like alkaline water, and pure fruit and vegetable juices.  When at a restaurant, ask for a lemon and squeeze the juice into the water.  The citric acid acts ironically as an alkalizer after it passes into the stomach.  Our acidic PH in the blood is responsible for a series of health problems.  Balancing it out is important.

Getting Moving:

11.  Consider daily exercise as a nutritional requirement.  For the sedentary, start by adding a 1/2 hour walk a day.  Nothing is as cheap and effective, and boosts your serotonin levels so easily and naturally.

12.  Get a trainer if necessary to help motivate you.  First, motivate yourself by seeing how getting healthy will help you attain your family, hobby, and career, and financial goals.  Otherwise, you won’t ever do it.

13.  Start your program with postural exercises.  Your mom was right about that one too, although she probably needs help with it as well.  Bad posture and poor general health are linked together in the research.  Have 2-3 simple postural exercises you can do in 5 minutes every day as a break from work.  Your energy will skyrocket.  (Check for future update blog on posture coming up at a later date.)

14.  Play a sport that requires cardiovascular endurance, fun, and a moderate to high level of skill.  Not only is it good for the heart, but good for the brain as well.  When you are in the pursuit of mastering a skill, you are feeding your brain and nerve system and protecting against advanced deterioration.  Golf (without a cart), hockey, basketball, and climbing are great examples.  Use it or lose it.

15.  Meditate.  Meditation, to me can be defined as any shift in awareness that brings the mind a state of re-connection with the body in the present moment.  You can do that even sitting on a bus.  It has been shown to lower stress hormone levels with no side effects.  There’s always a meditation class going on somewhere if you need, or CD’s and DVD’s you can get for that.

16.  DO YOGA (or pilates).  I haven’t come across another practice that challenges the mind and body in such a manner.  I’m fascinated with it and now want to learn how to teach yoga. You look at a person who has been in the regular practice of yoga or pilates for several years… Even before Lululemon existed… They all have one thing in common.  They look and feel better than most of us do.  They’re in better shape.  They’re more integrated as human beings.  They’re even sexier.   

17.  Have sex at least once a day (minimum), preferably with someone you love (Parental Guidance Version recommends it only if you’re married ) Even though I’m joking only a little bit, I recognize this schedule is tough to keep up with daily stresses, work, kids, resentments… I’m recommending that you make it a priority.  It’s extremely good for your mind and body, and if done appropriately, a darn good workout.  Can’t wait to blog about it.

18.  Take dance lessons.  Shameless plug.  I know I’m biased, but nothing is healthier and safer (unless you were that poor girl in Milan, Italy who’s head I crashed into another girl’s head during the final hit of the song- sorry about that one, hun).  Our hunter/gatherer ancestors made dance a part of their rituals.  There’s a reason for that:  It’s social, it’s primal, it’s healthy, it’s expressive, and it releases “feel good” chemicals into our reward centers of the brain naturally.  This reduces stress and anxiety levels.  Salsa classes have been described as “the cure for depression”.  Dance classes are not a treatment for depression!  But–if you don’t get enough movement in your life, you will become depressed.  Guaranteed.

19.  Take the stairs.  If you’re out of energy by the time you get to the top, take it as a sign that you are in desperate need of prioritizing your health.  

20.  Stretch daily.  Going from “downward dog” to “cobra” (yoga poses), and finishing off with the “chair” pose every day would make a huge difference to prevent back problems.  If you don’t know what they look like, get an instructor to help you.

The nerves that branch out from your spine allow the brain to control every single cell and organ of your body. Stay connected.

 

 

 

 

 

21.  See a Chiropractor Regularly.  Ya, ya, of course I would say that.  Think about it, though:  Our bodies are exposed to stresses daily. Postural stress, work stress, chronic sitting, lifting, bending, standing, repetitive motions, as well as deficiencies in movement.  You spine soaks up tension from all these daily events the way a sponge soaks up water.   An adjustment “rings out” the tension so you can take on more, and keep on abusing yourself.  Since you don’t live in a plastic bubble all day, it makes sense to have these movement deficiencies corrected.  Hippocrates, the father of medicine said “Look well to the spine for the cause of disease” .  You won’t hesitate in maintaining your teeth, car, hair, nails. You wear out your spine, and life is miserable.  I see way too much of that, and it saddens me because it’s so preventable.

Healthy Social Interactions:

22.  Beware of becoming “too nice”.  It’s transparent–people know that everyone has two sides, and either they will see through it and avoid, or put unbelievable expectations on you to stay happy all the time.   My patients wrongly assume that I’m “positive” all the time.  Those same people get extremely dissapointed in me when they see I can have a bad day too.  Be truthful and balanced with the expectations on yourself, and with others.  Easier said than done, I know.  Just work on it.

23.  Become aware of your values, rules, and beliefs.  Realize that as you are only expected to live your beliefs and values, others want to be appreciated for living their lives as they see fit.  Resist this truth and suffer the consequences.  People will go to where they are appreciated the most. And so will you.

While you're looking at someone's grass, someone else is looking at yours.

 

 

 

 

 

24.  Whenever you assume someone else has a better deal than you…look again.  Emmerson said “Envy is ignorance and immitation is suicide”.  Appreciate what you got– someone, somewhere is looking at you and wishing they had it as good as you.

25.  Don’t expect to have close interpersonal relationships with others if you haven’t come to terms with the relationship with yourself.  Appreciate the duality that is you: A little angel, as well as a little devil.  Your fears and guilts about yourself will come across to your friends.  Those who are the most miserable socially are the ones who pretend to be someone they are not.  Love your shadow.  You don’t have to get rid of half of yourself to appreciate yourself.

26.  Release the expectation that a true friend must support you all the time.  You’ll lose less friends this way.  Allow people to have their opinions, even though they might disagree with yours.  

27.  Go with your gut.  Make your own decision rather than basing it on a friend’s opinion.  By tomorrow, and almost every day afterwards, you will have to make a decision that might be frowned upon by some of your friends.  They will respect you more if you go with your own gut, even though they may disagree.

28.  Share your fears about your friends with them.  You’ll be surprised at how they will open up to you.  It’s a magical exercise that will connect you in ways you wouldn’t expect.

29.  Look at the other side.  Next time you are being gossiped or talked about, look at who is building you up at the same time.  Both criticism and praise come in pairs and are designed to keep you balanced and growing.  You’ll always have both– so before you get too up or down about it, look at the other side.  This keeps you from getting too emotional.  I learned this the hard way.  The bigger my career gets, the larger the numbers of people who talk crap.  It’s inevitable.  Embrace it, or stay small.  Imagine what Brittney and Madonna go through. 

30.  Connect with a group of individuals you resonate with.  Going through the joys and pains of live, social interaction is necessary for growth.

31.  Make your expectations clear.  By constantly sacrificing yourself for the benefit of others, and not letting people know what you expect for yourself, you slowly grow resentments towards people.  When you inevitably blow up at them, you feel guilty and repeat the process, until in your late 60’s you realize to keep things balanced from the get go.  Don’t wait till later in life to create win/win relationships.  Do it starting now.  Find a better cause for which to be a martyr.

 

Creating a healthy relationship with money

32.  Observe where you spend your money.  Where your money ends up is a clear indication of your highest priorities in life.  That’s where you express your own unique form of wealth.  If your money goes to clothing and dining out at fancy restaurants or vacations, don’t beat yourself up if you are cash poor.  Be realistic and grateful for the wealth you have chosen.

33.  Pay yourself FIRST.  Why would the universe invest in you if you aren’t willing to invest in yourself?  The wealthy pay themselves first. Create a deposit only money market liquid account and build up a cash cushion to take away the mental stress of fear, which will be a money repellant.  Imagine the freedom of working without fear of losing income, because you’ve built enough of a cushion.  

34.  Discover the hidden fears and guilts you have about acquiring wealth.  I’ve consulted with countless individuals who resent the fact that they are broke.  Behind their resentment for being a slave to money is a resentment to those who are financial masters.  Do you truly believe that “it is easier for a camel to walk through the eye of a needle than a rich man to go to heaven?”

35.  Realize that money won’t buy you happiness.  But also realize that poverty won’t either.  Money isn’t designed to make you happy.  It’s designed to make you comfortable, and give you options with your time.  Appreciate it for what it is truly there for and stop repelling it.  Stop putting “happy”expectations on having more money.  You’ll be just as miserable when you get it, but you’ll have more options.  Fulfillment comes when you are getting paid handsomely to do what you love– you’ll always have both happy and sad within that fulfillment.

36.  Be aware of your monthly expenses.  Ask yourself, “how much does it take to live one month comfortably for me?”  If your income isn’t more than that number, take a closer look and make the changes.  The “starbucks factor” will surprise you. Track where your money is going.

37.  Appreciate your debt.  Realize it’s there for a reason.  If you don’t appreciate what purpose it has served in your life, you will forever be running away from it.  It will haunt you and ruin your relationships.  Appreciate it, create a strategy to pay it back, and focus on building wealth.

38.  Don’t use credit cards unless you can pay them off monthly.  Buying things we don’t have the means to pay for is a huge part of the reason why we are in a recession in the first place.  The american dream turned out to be an illusion and is now the american nightmare, simply because people placed a higher value on things they don’ t need.  Stop carrying credit cards that have a balance.  Stop using them unless you have the cash to back it up.

39.  Accellerate your savings.  You’re going to think I’m crazy for this one.  Pay yourself first, doesn’t matter how much.  Start with as little as $50-$100 per month into a money market fund (liquidity).  Increase this amount by 10% every 3 months.  Build up to a 6 month cash cushion for all your expenses.  This removes the emotional strain of living paycheck to paycheck.  As you pay yourself more, you’ll notice money coming to you from unexpected sources.  Trust me on this one!  You have nothing to lose!

40.  Appreciate the money itself.  You have to be able to link saving money to that which is most important to you.  Ask yourself “how will building wealth and saving money help serve my work?  My family?  My social life?  My spiritual growth?”  If you can’t come up with enough “why’s”, then there is no motive for you to save and you will never have more money at the end of your month, than month at the end of your money.  Money acts the same as humans do–it will go to where it is appreciated the most.

Healthy Spiritual Growth

41.  Realize that spirituality takes on many forms.  Appreciate your own form of it and let others do the same with their own form.  Forcing someone into your belief system is as egotistical and productive as someone else forcing their beliefs on to you.  Unless they ask you about your beliefs, chances are they’re not interested.

42.  Your spirituality and science must agree.  Matter without spirit is motionless, spirit without matter is expressionless.  You are your most powerful when your spiritual calling and material existence is working together in a state of balance.

43.  Heaven is in the NOW.  Assuming that everything is terrible, that we live a horrible existence and that happiness is just around the corner if we can all change and think the same way….is the definition of pure hell to me.  I could be wrong, but if you can find a way to become grateful to what is NOW, then you are already there with a simple shift in perception.

44.  Start a gratitude journal.  Every night, before you go to bed, start thinking about exactly what you are grateful for.  Even though you can focus on the things you are ungrateful for (you do enough of that, don’t worry), think of 20 things that you can be grateful for in the past and present.  Don’t get out of bed in the morning without doing the exact same thing.  

45.  Start becoming aware of your prayers.  What do you REALLY want?  You will notice a simple “thank you” to God is enough.  In fact, you can be in a “prayerful” state all day if you are walking around in gratitude all day, and that will basically be the answer to any prayer– when you can be grateful for what is.

46.  Practice the art of surrendering to the moment.  Part of our frustrations and depressions come from resistance to what is going on in our lives right now.

47.  Trust yourself.  Realize that if you are a tiny slice of the Infinite, then you have all the tools necessary to get through your challenge.  Repeat the mantra “I trust myself completely,” or if you are Religious, you can repeat “I trust God’s wisdom and presence within me,” surrender to the moment and move forward, and observe the amazing things that will unfold.  Do it right now.

Healthy Family Relationships

48.  Realize that the purpose of your relationships are not to only be supportive and make you happy.  It’s purpose is to force you to see the universe from a perspective other than your own.  This will bring you both happiness and sadness, elation and depression.  Suffering comes from the expectation that it’s supposed to only be one-sided.  Think about that.

49.  Realize that the purpose of your family is not to only be supportive and make you happy.  Their purpose is to force you to see the universe from the perspective of greater numbers of people.  This will bring you both happiness and sadness, elation and depression.  Suffering comes from the expectation that it’s supposed to be one-sided. Think about that. 

50.  Notice how your family members display your opposite traits.  Often, they seem to be interested in opposite things that you are interested in.  One’s a social butterfly and another is a recluse. We might label them as dysfunctional, but there’s an order to the chaos.  Appreciate them for their uniqueness rather than try to fix them.  

51.  Approve of yourself FIRST.  You’ll notice your family members will follow suit.  The best gift you can give them is someone who loves themselves.  Ironically when you love yourself, you are less fearful and can be present with others.  They feel more appreciated when you are present with them rather than worrying about what’s missing in you.

52.  Create a win/win.  By sacrificing your own needs and desires, you inevitably grow a resentment towards your loved ones.  Let them know your desires and find creative ways to keep a balance of give and take.  True fulfillment in a relationship can only be attained when both parties win.

53.  Stop “fixing” people.  Whether you like it or not, people want to be loved for who they are, not changed.  If you don’t love them for who they are, they will go elsewhere. This is the greatest challenge in my life:  Trying to balance “fixing” people’s ailments, knowing we have to change their toxic and deficient lifestyles and thoughts, while trying not to fix them and appreciate them for who they are.  I go through cycles of extreme frustration to gratitude every day with this.  This is my journey of growth.  I’ve already blogged about these challenges.  I’m learning this one as I go.

54.  Become aware of your boundaries and appreciate them.  The main reason why conflict happens in our relationships is because we unknowingly step over the boundaries of our loved ones, or vice versa.  If we just communicate our priorities and boundaries, it makes a difference in the communication.  It makes the other person communicate their own boundaries, which gives both parties an opportunity to bridge the gap and try to create a win/win.  Try this next time.  It works like magic.

55.  Become comfortable being disliked.  This may sound counter-intuitive, but it’s actually quite liberating.  You stop trying so hard, which makes others feel way more comfortable around you.  This applies with family too.  I think George Costanza did this in a Seinfeld episode, and it worked well for him.  If that’s not reason enough for you to try it, I don’t know what is. (Notice I didn’t say try to be a jerk… I said be comfortable with yourself even if you’re not liked.)

Maintaining Mental Wellness

56.  Read about your interests.  Spend time in the pursuit of them.  Become a master in your area of interest.  If you only read 30 minutes a day, every day,  on a single subject, within 7 years you have read enough to be a master  and expert in the field.  If you have read 1 hour a day, you have mastered it after three and a half years.  

57.  Give your brain plenty of exercise. In addition to expanding your mind and self confidence, reading and constantly pursuing the expansion of knowledge keeps your brain stimulated.  Your brain energy and mental sharpness are like muscles.  Use them or lose them.  My grandfather is 90 years old, and despite his body slowing down, his mind stays sharp because it gets constant stimulation with books, newspaper articles and crossword puzzles.

58.  Play memory games.  They’re available everywhere.  Google it and play these games to stay sharp.

59.  Start teaching what you learn.  When you teach, the questions your student asks that you have difficulty with will inspire you to learn more.  A teacher is a constant student.  The greater your expertise in an area, the greater your sphere of influence.  The more I learn, the bigger my audience magically becomes.

Career Health and Fulfillment

60.  Do what you love and love what you do.  Everyone knows what they love to do. If you don’t know what you want to do, just ask yourself what you love to do and start doing it.  Read about it, spend time in the pursuit of things you love to do, and realize it’s not worth doing if someone doesn’t criticize or challenge you for doing it….Just do it regardless.

61.  Read about what you love and become a master.  While in the process of doing your unfulfilling job, read about your interest.  When you are ready, you can learn how to teach it to other people who are interested in the topic you are in the process of mastering.  You’ve just passed the torch and enhanced someone’s life.

62.  Decide on the size of the field you want to play in.  If you have a vision as big as your region, you can be a leader in your city.  If you have a national playground, you will be a leader in your state.  Fo a national influence, you require an international playing field.  To become an international leader, you have to have astronomical playing ground.  Realize that you are limited only by your own vision.  Your career and influence will grow to the degree that you grow.  Invest in yourself.

63.  Repeat empowering affirmations:  ”I trust myself completely” and “I am a genius at what I do”.  Make these your running programs rather than unproductive ones.

64.  Remember that you are going to die someday.  Steve Jobs of Apple made an amazing commencement address in 2005 to the graduates at Stanford University (it’s on youtube!), and he suggested this unusual reminder as the students began on their career journey.  Assume Career Fulfillment is your natural state.  If you’re not there, it simply means that you’re not tuned into what your purpose here is.  You’re going to die someday anyway, and at that moment, most of the people that were around to judge you won’t be there… In the end, the one question you want to answer “yes” to is “did I do everything I could with what I was given?”  What the hell are you going to do about it starting TODAY?  When is NOW going to be the right time?

65.  Hire a coach.  Another shameless plug.  But seriously, think about it.  How on earth can you achieve anything without someone to share your goals with and give you feedback either way, if you are on or off track?  If you are doing your job right, you are present when you are engaged in your work.  It’s impossible to stay focussed the entire time.  Tiger Woods has at least one coach at a time, sometimes 3 coaches… one for his swing, one for his mental game, and one for his physical training.  There’s no better investment for your physical/mental/financial health.  None.  Period.  Find someone who you trust, that will give you both support and challenge.

66.  Take you interest and learn how to create and deliver value to people.  You are contributing the most to the world when you are aware of who you are and what you love to do, and you find ways of serving others based on your area of interest.  If you like to weave baskets, you can be sure there are others who are into the same thing.  If you keep asking yourself “how can I create value for those people?” An answer will hit you hard one day.  When you then figure out how to deliver that value to others, then you are on the road to living your best life.

67.  Pay yourself first.  I know I just repeated myself, but it’s so important in developing your business that I can’t stress it enough.  In my first day of practice, I had a $100,000 student debt.  In my first month of practice coming right out of school, I made a whopping $1,500 for the entire month– hardly enough to pay all my bills.  You know where my first payment went to?  Myself.  I payed it into my “wealth account” I created with an advisor.  I put $150 (or 10% of each check from then on)  into it.  I continue to pay myself FIRST every month, regardless of income.  Let’s just say that today, my business has grown enough that I now have given myself a considerable raise.  And money is coming in from several sources that bring value to other people’s lives.  And I’m contributing more to others than I ever have as a result.  All because I selfishly pay myself first.

68.  Commit to personal growth.  When my father was an employee of a company, he used to think I was crazy for studying so much personal development and spending my hard earned money taking classes and seminars.  I intuitively knew that I was the wisest investment I could ever make.  Now that my father is self-employed, he’s recognizing the importance of personal growth in the growth of his business.  I chuckled when I found out he’s now starting to take business development courses.  As his self-awareness grows, so will his business.

69.  Set Aside Personal Development Classes as an Education expense in your budget.  Think about it. If you spend $1000 in print advertising, you are lucky if you get $1500 in return.  After I spent the same amount in one weekend seminar, the very first time, my return of investment equated to a jump in income that equated to 5 times that same amount, only within the first month!.  I discovered that you can’t put a price tag on personal growth.   It’s always so ironic for me to see that the people who need it the most often say they can’t afford it, but the people who have invested in themselves always recognize the value, have seen results, and won’t hesitate to keep learning and getting greater returns on their investment.  Remember this:  Those that whine the most about their lives don’t really want to change their story.  I personally have a tough time sitting back and staying quiet when I hear someone whine about their life. (Workin on it)  You see?  Personal growth never ends.

70.  Love what you do.  If you are doing an unfulfilling job, you can easily love it in ten minutes by asking yourself the right question: “How does my current job serve my highest values, priorities and beliefs?”  Find 40-50 ways that your current work serves your greater purpose.

71.  Write your own personal mission statement. Since I wrote down (back in 2006) what I wanted to be, do, and have in all areas of life, I have sat in awe several times as strange, “coincidental” synchronicities have occurred to help me fulfill it.  I can’t wait to see what’s in store over the next 12 months.  As my career develops, I increase my sphere of influence, network of friends, and touch more lives.  Each step of the way, there is a greater challenge, greater level of criticism of people who negate you, and greater level of fear, stress, responsibility, and anxiety to overcome.  That’s why having a successful career isn’t for everyone.  But it all begins by knowing your mission.  Put yours down on paper, read it every day, and watch amazing things happen over the next six months.

General Healthy lifestyle

72.  Get plenty of sleep.  Among the obvious brain function problems that can result from a lack of sleep, if you aren’t getting enough, your cells can become resistant to insulin, and you are opening the doors to a myriad of health problems that can result. 

73.  Get sunshine.  Lack of sunlight prevents proper vitamin D absorption.  This is a critical vitamin for our immune system to function properly.  Flu season just so happens to be when the stress levels are high (after Christmas) and sunlight hours are at a yearly low.  Moderate use of tanning beds or bright lights are a good 2nd best.

74.  See a Naturopathic Doctor that you trust.  You might as well try natural remedies first, in addition to the traditional medical care you are receiving.  Modern medicine’s strength is in emergency management.  It is my opinion that modern medicine should be avoided if you can first find answers with alternatives to drugs. Drug care is not the first answer to most complaints.  Research and find the root cause!

75.  Get regular Colon Hydrotherapy treatments (Colonics).  It clears out the toxins and helps you absorb your food by removing particles that might have been clogging your tubes for years.

76.  Learn to appreciate the art of breathing.  Taking deep, diaphragmatic breaths every single day and becoming present with the breath is an amazing way to appreciate your body.  You can’t live long without it.  Imagine following each breath of air that flows into your lungs and alveoli, oxygenates your red blood cells to be transported into the heart to be pumped throughout the body, while at the same time those red blood cells in your alveoli have transported waste (Carbon Dioxide) and dumped it back to be exhaled.  All this happens automatically, while you are asleep or waking.  If all that doesn’t appear to be a magnificent miracle to you, I don’t know what is.  When you take the time to go through that whole automatic daily ordered system that is you, it gives you a bigger appreciation about what the purpose of life is, and how our stresses, frustrations, resentments are all so meaningless.  When you are undergoing stress, the best way to instantaneously lower your stress response hormones (that are slowly killing you) is to stop and become aware of your breathing.  Appreciate what your body is doing, even if your heart rate and breathing increase.  Your body is working for you, for your survival.  Appreciating this fact is the first step to becoming healthy in both mind and body.

 

I’ve become obsessed with researching tools to empower all areas of my life– Health being the top priority.  What good are friends, family, money, job, hobbies, vacations, if you don’t have your health?  The choices we make every day either make us stronger or weaker.  I’ve given you some tips that I know will help you become stronger in mind, body, and beyond.  

Realize that you never get there.  It’s all about the journey.  I’m working at it every day, and sharing what I learn.  The best belief shift I can give you towards your overall  health is the belief that your body is actually working for you.  Your symptoms and illnesses, and challenges in life are put in front of you as mirrors for how you are living.  If you don’t like what you see in that mirror, it’s time for you to take a look at how you eat, move, and you think (Fear, guilt, anger, and resentment are all toxins to the body– and I will share the research on that one with you some day) .  If you don’t change all 3 of those things and get them all firing on all cylinders, don’t expect to live a healthy and fulfilling life.  

You are more than your body.  This body you are living in is a vehicle for you to fulfill your purpose, and you are going to die someday.  Most of us walking around are completely asleep to this fact.  Discover who you are, find out what you love to do, make your health a top priority so you can go out and do it.  Take care of your vehicle… You can’t trade it in for a newer model.

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