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Thanks to everyone who watched my first video and shared and dropped me a line or sent me an email.  When Tobin showed me the first edit from our 2 days of filming at the Westgate Wellness Centre in Maple Ridge, I knew we were onto something fun.  Your comments were funny after some of you saw my picture on my facebook page after makeup and were horrified.

Nothing gives me more fulfillment than teaching people an important message of health and healing, while getting a few laughs.  As a pathological exhibitionist, I like to know that my “acting a fool” doesn’t go to waste.  Please feel free to share this 2nd installment of “Dr. Nima Chiropractor/Spinal Therapist”.

Thanks for watching, laughing, sharing, tweeting, liking and cringing.  Prepare to be a little bit uncomfortable (again).

Have you ever repeated a story so much you believed it as fact– only later to realize that the story was not true?  Remember how shocked you were?

It’s disturbing because you start to become aware that you may have other beliefs that are complete bullshit.  Imagine the surprise when we realized the earth wasn’t flat.  I don’t know the story—but I bet you they thought the guy who proved it was a sphere was labeled a heretic.

When I was in school, we were taught to ask our patients about Family History.  I’m sure you’ve been to the doctor and have been asked about the history of illness of your family.  Reason being—if your parents have an illness—then it’s in your genes and your probability will be high as well.

Because of these beliefs, some people have gone so far as to have surgeries without any illness—just as a precaution—like removing their breasts because breast cancer “runs in the family”.

What if I told you we’re discovering these old-school beliefs about cancer and other chronic illnesses caused by “faulty genes” are today’s version of “flat earth”?

The truth is—we are now discovering this paradigm is not true.  Your genes are not your destiny.  Read time magazine’s article “Why your DNA is not your Destiny”. (Jan 2010).

The “Central Dogma Theory” taught in medical schools.

The “Central Dogma” – that is taught in schools (simply stated) is that your DNA gets transcribed to create proteins, which are the foundation of all the physiological functions of your life– and this process is irreversible.   In other words, your DNA controls your life, and there is little to nothing you can do to change that.

The funny thing is that it’s actually called “The Central Dogma” of Biology.  Funny that in a paradigm that prides itself on being scientific, we have a “Dogma” which can be defined as “a religious doctrine that is proclaimed as true without proof.”

I have some earth shattering news for you.  New research is now challenging the belief of “it runs in the family so I have a higher chance of getting it”.

I’m also going to explain why this old belief is not only outdated—but it can be hazardous to your health to believe it to be true– in 2 parts.

3 paradigm-changing studies that have been published about Genetics and susceptibility to illness.

1)  The first study published in the New England Journal of Medicine, was from Denmark, a country where they for some reason keep an extremely detailed register of genetic origin for their citizens.  Researchers looked at 960 families—more than a thousand children who were adopted—meaning they had NO GENETIC CONNECTION between parent and child, and they evaluated causes of death.

What they found was that when one of those adoptive parents died of cancer before the age of 50, the risk of the child of these parents dying of cancer increased by 500 percent.

But how can that be? You might ask.  There’s no genetic connection!

I’m glad you asked—because the answer is that family environment plays a huge role in your health, regardless of your “strong” or “weak” genes.  The authors conclude

…death from cancer, and possibly also from vascular causes, appears to be influenced by the family environment. (N Engl J Med 1988; 318:727–32.)”

My brother (left) and me (right) on November 22nd, 1975. Not genetically identical-- but we're still twins.

2)  The Second study, again from the New England Journal of Medicine, conducted at a prestigious institute in Sweden where they select Nobel Prize candidates looked at (genetically) identical twins.  They studied whether or not these twins got the same illnesses because they shared IDENTICAL GENES.

Can you take a wild guess what the results were?

The authors state

Inherited genetic factors make a minor contribution to susceptibility to most types of neoplasms (cancers)….We conclude that the overwhelming contributor to the causation of cancer in the populations of twins that we studied was the environment”.

Then they put these cancer-ridden mice in different groups with different environments and in a nutshell–found that the groups in healthier environments (mice that got nurturing, socialization, opportunity for normal exercise, mental stimulation) actually SHRUNK THE CANCER TUMORS.

I says PARDON?

“Dr. Nima, you mean to tell me that even if I have cancer, I can shrink cancer by changing my lifestyle?”

You tell me.  This is what the researchers say:

“We show here that an enriched environment leads to a remarkable suppression of cancer proliferation in all three models tested, even when delayed until the tumor was well established”. (Cao et al. Environmental and Genetic Activation of a brain-Adipocyte BDNF/Leptin Axis Causes Cancer Remission and Inhibition.  Cell 2010 July 9, 142(1):52-64.

Even though it’s controversial for me to say— THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT I’M SAYING.  Chronic illness is multi-factoral.  Reductionistic Medicine is concerned with isolating the genes and coming up with an outside-in “cure”.  Unfortunately most clinicians are too busy to keep up with the latest research.  Just because your doctor doesn’t know doesn’t mean it’s not true.

There are many campaigns, runs, walks, fundraisers that we all get behind for this noble purpose of getting healthier.

I’m not saying that those are bad things.

I’m saying we’re spending our energy and money in the wrong place.  I’m saying that the runs, walks, support, being part of a team with a mission, sense of family, community, and placing a high value on yourself IS the cure—not the stuff we are spending our time researching.  I’m saying we can avoid most cancer and disease if we had all those elements in there in the first place.

And maybe I might be so bold as to say that the disease can then be looked at as a gift, a wake-up call, or all of the above to get you to put yourself in the right environment.  And by “environment” I mean proper food intake, sufficient exercise, and sufficient gratitude, self esteem and social interaction in your life.  Oh, and a spine that can move properly.

At least that is what the research is starting to point out.

On my next post, we will discuss what these research findings actually mean in terms of your life and your health.  If you really get what I’m saying and am about to share with you—it’s really a game changer.  We can’t approach our life in the same manner, and not only that—it’s dangerous to think otherwise.

I have an insulin-dependent type-2 diabetic patient who came in for a visit and told me of his problems with blood sugar the night before, and how he had to eat French fries and coke to bring up his sugar after he took too much insulin.

I asked him “ever considered changing your lifestyle?  Ever considered exercise and eating raw, whole foods?”

“No, it doesn’t matter—the doc says it’s genetic.”

Sigh.

And so I continue to write and teach.  For my own sanity.  It might take some work… but the world is starting to catch on.  Are you still worried about your family history of disease now?  Next post we’ll discuss what we TRULY inherit from our parents.

As a Chiropractor in Maple Ridge, I adjust subluxations in the spine to help bring balance to the body—which helps to balance the mind.

As a speaker/consultant and coach, I adjust subluxations in thoughts and perceptions to help bring balance to the mind—which helps to balance the body and life.  I’ve been fascinated lately with what happens to the body/mind when you are in a state of anxiety.

Apparently I’ve stumbled onto something that is way more common than you might think it is.

From my research, the body, when treated appropriately, fed innately, moved innately, with a healthy alignment, and connected to some greater purpose will organize itself into a healthy state quite magnificently.  It’s truly inspiring to see.   I’ve had the opportunity to witness people go off their anxiety and anti-depressant medications simply by making the right “adjustments” (sorry had to throw that in).  So why do some people then, stay stuck in their cycle of frustration?

The allopathic/medical (disease) model takes an illness or dis-eased state and asks the question: “What’s the diagnosis?”  first.  This way, when there is a label, there is a “scientific” course of action that is prescribed, most often pharmaceutical.  And how do they come up with this diagnosis?  By tests, scans, x-rays.  Test after test to come up with a number to see if it falls within certain guidelines of acceptability.

Examples:

Blood sugars too high = “Diabetes”.

Blood pressure too high =  “Hypertension”

Thyroid levels too high = “Hyperthyroidism”

In each of these cases, the body is responding to it’s environment, often appropriately.  Modify the behavior and the body starts coming back into balance.  Problem: There’s not a lot of time to talk about that in the visit and doctors aren’t trained to.  Solution:  There’s a pill for it.

And not to bash doctors, but when you look at the big picture you see how the industry is set up to profit on the illness, not the healing of it.  It’s a terrific business model:  Manage the disease, and you have created a lifelong customer.

The problem with anxiety and depression is that there are no tests or objective findings, and when you look at the diagnostic manual doctors rely on, you’ll be surprised to know that at any given time of the day/week/month/year, you will be able to identify with a great deal of the symptoms they describe.  Tell me if you can relate to this:

Generalized Anxiety Disorder

A. Excessive anxiety and worry (apprehensive expectation), occurring more-days-than-not for at least 6 months, about a number of events or activities (such as work or school performance).

B. The person finds it difficult to control the worry.

C. The anxiety and worry are associated with three (or more) of the following six symptoms (with at least some symptoms present for more-days-than-not for the past 6 months).

1. restlessness or feeling keyed up or on edge
2. being easily fatigued
3. difficulty concentrating or mind going blank
4. irritability
5. muscle tension
6. sleep disturbance (difficulty falling or staying asleep, or restless unsatisfying sleep)

Ya, that pretty much describes everyone, and maybe 50% of people at any given time.  Can you see why anti-anxiety/depressant meds are a multi-billion dollar industry?

The unfortunate “Mental Illness Trap”

Picture this:

You’re feeling run down with all these symptoms because you’ve just gone through a tremendous loss, or are feeling a lot of pressure from work, or family issues have come up.  You go to your GP.  According to your symptoms, you fit the criteria.  You are now told that the sensations you are feeling are because you have a disorder.  You’re given a prescription for Zoloft or Paxil.  How does that make you feel?  From my experience working with patients and going through their case history, when they tell me they have anxiety disorder, they have 2 reactions simultaneously:

1)   A sense of disempowerment. They see themselves as separate from the illness, as though it has taken over their lives and are fighting against it with the help of medical care. (“I am a sick and weak individual who is mentally ill who requires medication.  Side note–My mother has it too—it runs in the family.  Nothing I can do about it.”)

2)   A sense of relief. Even though the symptoms are uncomfortable, deep down inside, a lot of people take comfort in the fact that they can attribute their horrible symptoms to something outside of their own thoughts and perceptions, and the disorder is to blame.  (“Finally, I know what’s wrong with me.  I have anxiety disorder.  I knew there was a reason I was so miserable. Thank God there are medications for that.  Side note, my mother has it too—it runs in the family.”)

Can you see the problem with that?

It puts you in a situation where you are seeing anxiety as an illness to treat rather than feedback your body is giving you.  You then start on a mission to conquer anxiety rather than looking at it as a necessary result of the thoughts and perceptions about the events that have happened in our lives.  Rather than working on transcending it—we then start to fear the symptoms themselves.  “Oh no!  My anxiety again!  When will this uncomfortable thing go away!  Give me my meds!”

My intention is to first make you aware of this, and to show you how to empower yourself and take action to transcend it. I have to say, as with all challenges, it won’t be easy.  God knows, I have my moments too.  But it’s possible.

This just in:  There’s nothing wrong with you.

If you are struggling with any of those symptoms, I’m going to tell you something that you probably haven’t been told by anyone.  YOU ARE NORMAL.  That’s right.  Unless there is a tumor in your brain that has caused your dopamine/serotonin production to completely SHUT DOWN (which is quite unlikely—don’t go request a brain scan now), those sensations you are feeling are THE NORMAL RESULT of the fight or flight mechanism in your body.  Your heart rate goes up, your digestion shuts down, adrenaline in your body won’t let you sleep, your adrenals will start to shut down and you will feel fatigued from being in this state all the time.  You won’t have any desire for sex, and because you’re in survival mode—being a loving mother/wife/husband and a productive person at work become difficult to impossible—you’re too busy running from a tiger to pay attention to those things.  You become emotional.  Reactive.  Paranoid.  Everyone’s out to get you.  Every comment is a complaint.  Every well-meaning criticism becomes an attack at your character.  Your own mental state can destroy your relationships.

I’ve been through it all—so you’re not alone.

There is nothing wrong with you—it’s the result of the accumulation of thoughts that have been programmed unconsciously.  The good news is that if you want to work at it and take responsibility and empower yourself, you can get back on track.

First step to Transcendence: Appreciation.

I will leave you with this.  First step to emotional freedom is to recognize your symptoms for what they are:  Symptoms and sensations related to anxiety.  Today, whenever you feel the anxious thoughts and symptoms show up—just sit with them for a moment.  Observe how you want to reach for that cigarette/drink/drugs/junk food/sex/work/video games/avoidance behavior in order to quiet the symptoms down.  Observe them from a curious standpoint.  “Wow… isn’t that interesting.  I really want a Big Mac right now.”

And sit with the pain.  Sit in the fire.  Feel the symptoms on the inside and remind yourself that the sensations aren’t the real you—they’re just a normal reaction to the “fight or flight” mechanism.  That’s your body working normally in response to the thoughts you are having or carrying around with you.  The real you is the observer to those feelings, and is an amazing individual with the potential to make a huge difference in the world when they are in that higher level of consciousness.

Step 2:  Stop giving a shit.

Then you have to do something you have never done before:  Stop giving a shit about the symptoms.  Smile at the sensations.  Approach them with an attitude of “who cares—they’re just symptoms and they are temporary.” Like you just broke your ankle and rather than whine about the pain of it—you’re finally letting go and allowing the ankle to heal and you know it’s going to take time– but it will heal. Just allow it to hurt.  You won’t die from it. And you simply go on with your day with a “who cares” attitude about them.

Sounds crazy doesn’t it?  I’m telling you—it works.

This is just the beginning—recognizing the sensations and sitting presently with them.  Don’t try to get rid of them.  Walk with them, dance with them, smile at them, watch them with curiosity.  When you do, you enter a different state of consciousness—you are in the present moment as an observer.  Pretty soon you will realize that you are starting to have power over them.  It’s like weight loss or working out.  You will have ups and downs.  But do it.  And stick to it.  Start today—let me know how you do.  Can’t wait to share more steps with you.

Please retweet/share or pass this along to someone who’s been a jerk lately.  Chances are, they’re in an unconscious “fight or flight” state.

I’ve always been a fun-loving guy.  Always cracking jokes, acting a fool.  My mother would always tell me to try to be more serious.  For the most part, I’m still the same, but since a few years ago, I had noticed a sharp decline in my enjoyment for life.

What I’m about to share is not easy for me.

Hypocrisy at its finest

People come to me for a variety of reasons—namely they are experiencing headaches, neck pain, back pain, and aren’t living to their potential physically.  Going through my emotional ups and downs caused me to reflect and study a variety of personal development and “self-help” books and attend seminars.  I have also grown into a consultant/life coach and I help those who are going through anxious, depressed states, or people who are doing good and want to take it to the next level.  I’m also a speaker on Stress and produce videos that are (supposed to be) fun and entertaining.  Most of the feedback from the videos has been quite good—but you can’t please everyone.  My favorite comment was “now you wonder why doctors don’t take you guys seriously?”

I get random emails from Chiropractors around the world saying that I inspire them to take things to the next level and they want to someday reach the level that I’m at.

I’m here to tell you that when I get those emails, my psyche splits into two separate reactions.

The first one feels proud, honored, blessed and elated at the response.

The other voice says “are you kidding me?”

Confession: I feel like this sometimes too. Despite what my videos show.

The confession I wanted to make is that the reason why I teach about stress/anxiety/depressed states is because despite the fact that I have more to be grateful for than most people—I catch myself suffering from anxiety on occasion.  I get depressed on occasion.  I get down on myself, look at the glass half empty, feel unworthy, purposeless, and empty on occasion.  Ironic that the song for my last video was “put on a happy face”.  That’s right.  My videos are bullshit sometimes.

Anxiety is more common than you think.  There are millions of people suffering.  Some have gone to the doctor and have been labeled or “diagnosed”.  Millions are put on medication just to run away from the uncomfortable feelings and feel they can’t function without them.  Even more who aren’t diagnosed will self-medicate.

Going through my struggle with it, I have made some amazing realizations:

1)   Most times it’s not what you’re worried about that bothers you—it’s the actual feelings of anxiety you begin to fear.  You then start to fear the anxiety itself.  This creates a downward spiral that creates even more anxiety and hopelessness.
2)   Anxiety/Depression usually comes with a trigger—usually a stressful/traumatic event or loss that you don’t quite recover from, and the stress response from it follows you to create a state of alertness (anxiety) that keeps you from enjoying your life.
3)   Most human behavior is governed by your desire to run away from the uncomfortable feelings of anxiety.
4)   Anxiety exists in a spectrum, from general unease to full-blown panic attacks, and are a normal part of everyone’s life to a degree.

In my attempts to manage my anxiety, I mostly practice what I preach.  A proper diet makes a huge difference.  Exercise is a must—personally I don’t know how anyone can live through stress without it.

I’ve been doing some research on it and have made some breakthrough discoveries as of late.  This breakthrough discovery has the potential to change lives.  I now want to dedicate a great deal of time in helping my patients and community, and world (thanks to technology the world has gotten smaller) in dissolving anxiety, since stress is a huge part of it.

So what is the magical cure?

The cure is this:  Understanding and appreciating why it’s there.  You understand what anxiety is (a normal part of alertness that results from the stress response).  You study what happens to the brain when a stressful thought enters, and when you understand this, you realize that your symptoms are NORMAL.  You appreciate your body is working for you and giving you feedback… and you DANCE WITH IT.  You stop fighting it.

What’s abnormal is your constant resistance to them.  You then begin to beat yourself up.  Tell me if you can relate to some of the thoughts I found that I was saying to myself:

“Why do I feel this way?”

“Is this normal?

“Will this feeling ever go away?  Will I have to live with it for the rest of my life”

“How can I get rid of this feeling RIGHT AWAY?”  (These thoughts are the source of all addictions, by the way—“aha” moment for me).

And my personal number one thought process that has driven me almost to insanity a couple times:

“I hate how I feel!  I’m supposed to be happy!  Now the world will know I’m a complete fraud!”

Then it dawned on me.  Ever since I bought the Westgate clinic 3 and a half years ago, my responsibilities, as well as stress levels have quadrupled.

The VERY FIRST DAY of me taking over the company as the owner, my top 2 staff came in, cornered me and demanded raises (I had no idea if we could afford to do it) and it seemed like everyone was coming to me with their hands out. I had to manage not only my patients, but the complaints of every patient that walked in (we have 12-14 practitioners at a time).

Anyone who has ever run a business before will understand—a business carries overhead—expenses that are unexpected but are seemingly endless—broken equipment, renovations, computer upgrades, insurance, etc. etc.  Huge stressor!  These experiences were huge growth processes for me– my anxieties alienated me from some staff and associates and created major tension in my work relationships.

I got engaged and married within 6 months of buying Westgate Wellness Centre, and bought a house within the same year.  Anyone who has done those things will understand the process is not always a picnic.

Holy crap, talk about a mountain of responsibility to put on an inexperienced 31 year old.

The crazy thing about how the anxiety can destroy relationships– you feel so awful all the time and you try to make someone responsible for them– your co-workers or family members, and you unconsciously start to blame them and make them responsible for your happiness.  Pretty crazy stuff– huge growth lessons for me.

Slowly over the years, I noticed my stress levels climbing.  Why do you think I became an “expert” on stress and the body?  I decided to study the hell out of it—just to understand and get some peace of mind for my own sake.  I felt like I was drowning.  In fact “Stressbusters” was created in my lowest state—when I was in an emotional valley.  It was what I needed to pull me out.

Making my “Mess” my message

We all know the best way to learn is to teach–I decided to make my “mess” my message:  That your mental and physical health is entirely in your hands.  You are responsible for changing your environment (in how you eat, move, and think).  You have to be willing to become a student of life, of your judgments, of your values, and be willing to dig deep to find out what drives you, so you can take your biggest challenges of life to make the world better and to serve those that might be going through the same.

So I’m doing it.  The very act of writing this to YOU is an example of becoming present with it.  I suggest you start journalling your thoughts and do the same.

I’m documenting my story and the story of my clients who I’m helping who are going through the same stressful states.   I want to create educational materials to those that are struggling with stress, anxiety, and depression, and who want some guidance and mentoring to pull themselves out.  The way out is not easy, but it has a few essentials:

1)   Have a Clearly Functioning Nervous System. There have been times when my spine has been so stuck and I haven’t been aware because I wasn’t in pain.  After my adjustment, I felt a huge weight lift off my shoulders and mind.  This is because the nerve interference in your spine (subluxations) will trigger the stress response in the brain and body.

2) Move it or Lose it. You need to move and burn off that excess adrenaline that is coursing through your arteries and veins.  The fight or flight state most of us are in because of life challenges creates anxiety arousal in the brain (THIS IS NORMAL).  Exercise burns it off.  Plus it makes my butt and gut look good.

3) Eat Well! You need to stop putting toxins and non-foods and anti-nutrients in the body.  If you are going through any anxiety whatsoever, it’s critical you switch to whole foods without chemicals.  Go back to basics.  Stock up on raw veggies, limit sugar and processed foods.

4)   You need to start becoming comfortable being uncomfortable. Start to recognize your uncomfortable feelings and attribute them to the anxiety, not that something bad will happen.  Nobody ever died from the sensations of anxiety, even though sometimes it may feel that way.  If you learn to “sit in the fire” of the symptoms, and observe them without judging them and with a knowing they will go away—they will.  Once they resurface, you repeat the same process.  Sit through them, and don’t resist them and wish them away.  Smile at them.  They’re just sensations.  No real threat to life.  Dance with them and gain control.

I know this may come as a shock to many of you because you watch my videos or you have attended my seminars or seen me speak, or even met me and said “how the heck could this dude have anxiety—he can dance in front of people, act a fool, and speak in front of hundreds to thousands of people—how could he be stressed and anxious?”

Well I’m here to tell you that although I can shine in THOSE kinds of stressful environments, it’s only a public persona and not always the way it is.  But I’ve been working on it and it’s paying off dividends.

These tools have literally saved my life.  I don’t know if I would be able to move forward without them.

I will be writing more about this in the next post.

Please pass this along to someone you know who worries too much, who has been labeled as anxious or depressed (the two go hand in hand).

Looking forward to your feedback.

I’m not ashamed to admit it– I love being theatrical and acting.  I’m a repressed actor.  So every time an opportunity comes up for me to explore that kind of fun creativity, I jump on the chance.

I’m constantly re-defining myself.  I get bored way too easily.  At work, if I only have to be seeing those with Low Back Pain, Neck Pain, and Headaches all day– I’d shoot myself out of boredom.

Lately the thing that’s been inspiring me the most is teaching about changing lifestyle, particularly in terms of stress and overcoming “stories of suffering”.  I’ve been helping more and more people change their thoughts and perceptions about their own current life and showing them the magnificence that’s already there, if they can only learn to ask themselves the right questions.

The toughest, most stressful part of my job is having patients come to see me with physical ailments, and from the look on their faces they are in a state of crisis about the challenges going on in their lives, and when we start talking about it– they tell me that their GP is sending them to a Psychiatrist, and they are already on 2-4 different psychotropic medications, along with a slew of others that are given for stress-related stuff… and they are looking for “what’s wrong with them” and trying to come up with a “diagnosis”.  Most people have NO CLUE they already have everything within them to be healthy and emotionally balanced.  If they only took the time to empower themselves and take responsibility, and to ONLY USE MEDICINE FOR EMERGENCY CASES, and not rely on their doctor to rescue them.  This may sound cocky, but I know that there is a better way.  My goal is to reach those people who are willing to take their health in their own hands and to learn the tools to help THEMSELVES get there– mentally, emotionally, and physically.

So we’ve come back with a fresh look and a new fun video to show the world that what we do is unique and different.

I want to thank Tobin at http://www.photobinphotography.com for his great work and guidance, Eric Lee Harper for his musical talents, and all the dancers and volunteers involved in making this.  I had a blast with the process.

So here it is.  Feel free to share, retweet, and enjoy!

Hey gang…. a couple of years ago, my buddy Tobin from phoTobin Photography came to my office and with the help of another buddy, one of Vancouver’s top hip hop instructors, performers, and choreographers– Richard O’Sullivan, we threw together a cute little commercial on “The Power of An Adjustment” that is on my website’s home page.  Little did I know that little day at the office would get such feedback.  I still get emails and calls from chiropractors around the world commending me for the fun portrayal of what we do.  Since I’m a bit of a ham, and I love to dance, we just took an idea, threw it together, and it seemed to work. I’m pretty surprised to see that it’s now climbed to over 47,000 hits! I now go to chiropractic seminars throughout the world and still get a kick out of people coming up to me and asking me if I’m the guy from the commercial.
Well… after being stumped on how to top this… we’ve come up with a new “adjustment” video we’re launching this week.  I’m pretty excited about it.  For those of you who haven’t seen our last one yet– please enjoy and share!

Another confession:  After I graduated from Chiropractic School, I went through a huge depressive and anxious period.  I discovered something that helped pull me out and bring me to where I am today.  Now, I share it with the world.

In dealing with stress, it’s important to exercise, eat healthy, count your blessings, remove nerve interference from the body with regular adjustments…. But what about the stuff from your past– your “story” of suffering?  What about the constant day to day stuff that you go through that you just can’t seem to get away from– at work and at home?

I never had any intention of being a speaker or teacher, or Life Coach, or consultant– whatever you want to call it.  Over 6 years ago, I attended a seminar that absolutely changed my life.  I was introduced to a method that basically took all the challenges, emotional charges, and ingratitudes I was going through and brought them all into a perfect state of order.  I was worried that I was going to be introduced to a religion or cult– far from it!  The Demartini Method is a tool with a thousand practical applications– from understanding your relationship with money to your relationships, to finding your life’s purpose.  Whatever your religion or belief system is, the Method is a series of questions/exercises that takes any stressful event in your past or present and completely gets you liberated from it emotionally– so that it doesn’t run you, so you can be clear on the direction of your “inner voice” rather than worry about outside voices that seem to criticize, challenge, or hold you back.  It basically erases your story and brings you to a present state of love and gratitude.  The Demartini method can’t be explained in words– it can only be experienced.  People who’ve suffered tremendous trauma, abuse, neglect, worry, fear, guilt, remorse, shame, blame, anger, depression, conflict– all the amazing things that make life interesting can dissolve those feelings in a matter of minutes to hours.  Yes, it’s that simple (yet difficult).

After that amazing experience, I dedicated my life to mastering it in my own life, and I found myself in situations with my patients who were telling me about the challenges at home or work– so I started giving them advice using the tools I had just learned.

All the questions do, is to shift your perceptions about an event– and suddenly the event that’s so miserable turns into something you can be grateful about.  My patients would come back with such amazing stories of emotional freedom from using the technique, that I naturally progressed in creating classes and setting aside “coaching” and consulting times to help more people with it.  It’s become the most fulfilling part of my career as of late.  This last Stressbuster’s video is all about our monthly Stressbuster’s classes that allow people to bring their stresses each month and learn tools on how to dissolve them– and move on to bigger and better things.  Find out when the next Stressbusters Class is by clicking here.  This video is done at the office and taken from a recent Stressbusters class.  They’ve only just begun and are getting more and more popular as time goes on– and we’re now needing a new home as my office is too small, and we’re outgrowing the community college classrooms I’ve been renting out.  You’ll also notice some salsa steps being taught– every Stressbusters class is unique in that we do a small salsa break to keep our brains and bodies active.  It’s a helluva lotta fun!

Many thanks to Nina for being such a genius videographer.  Thanks for the feedback! You can find out more about her at Oh Just Peachy Studios.

"Sorry Dr. Nima... I completely disagree with what you say"

I just received an email from an angry reader/viewer of my blog. I’ll address it at the end of this post.

As with any person who has a strong point of view and is on a mission to change a prevailing system–I have my fair share of critics.  In fact, I know I’ve done a really good job in my lectures and seminars, and blog only when I see people jumping up in support of what I teach– inspired and empowered, and some who stand up and disagree– sometimes quite passionately.  If everyone agreed with what I said, then I know that I’m not making enough of an impact.  Those lectures are quite boring for me.  But let me tell you– I’ve been a part of some really fun and let’s call them “spirited debates” as well.

I speak about controversial topics.  I talk about health, stress, diseases, it’s causes and it’s solutions.  Telling someone they are responsible for their health is a no-no in some circles who promote the idea that we are a victim to our genes and our lifestyle choices don’t matter.  I’ve never been accused of being politically correct.

I recently spoke to a group from the British Columbia Medical Association– a room filled with people responsible for turning Medical Offices in our province to high tech, paperless offices.  The topic was about Stress, and in the talk, I connected the dots between our stressful states of mind and the specific chemical changes that happen in our bodies in response to our “fight and flight” stress response.  Why?  Because it’s the most fascinating thing to me, and my audiences are simply BLOWN AWAY when they realize that their disorders that they might be taking medications for are actually examples of their body working properly– it’s the environment they put their body in that’s causing the problem.

I promised myself I would be good, political, on my best behavior, and resist the urge to be too vocal about the way the system is set up is actually doing more harm than good for chronic illnesses.

For the most part, I was quite diplomatic.  I praised the system and it’s dealing with crisis care and management.  But I couldn’t resist to take it further and tell them my truth– that chronic illness rates are on the rise, medication and surgery use is increasing at alarming rates, and we continue to get sicker, and the answer is NOT MORE DOCTORS AND NURSES AND HOSPITALS.  Throughout my entire talk, I could see this one woman (who turned out to be a nurse) sit quite uncomfortably, fidgeting, looking down, avoiding eye contact… She waited until I was done my talk and spoke up and said that my talk was quite polarizing, and that many doctors ARE teaching what I have been talking about and that she “doesn’t use chiropractors,” and that all in all, she wasn’t impressed with what I had to say.  Her face was beet red the whole time.  She was pretty stressed!   She had some supporters who agreed and didn’t like many aspects of my talk.

At the same time, I had a majority of the room say they were right behind what I was saying.

Mission accomplished.  Here are the facts:

Chronic Illness (Lifestyle related) are on the rise.

Despite the fact that as she said there are many doctors who are talking about lifestyle first, medication prescriptions for these illnesses have increased by 50 times since the 1950′s in the name of science.  Doctors are being marketed by Pharmaceutical Reps to prescribe these drugs in unethical fashion.  Not only that, but Doctors are now being approached by the patients themselves requesting drugs that they have been marketed directly to by the drug company.  There are people in suits and ties right now strategizing on how to get more drugs into more people.  I just want to shed light on these facts.  So even though there are a few who are doing it right– THERE’S NOT ENOUGH OF THEM DOING IT RIGHT.

Correct me if I’m wrong– even if we disagree on the appropriate course of action for a particular patient with a specific condition– you may say painkillers and I may want to correct the cause with chiropractic adjustments– we can not disagree on the fact that drugs and surgeries, especially in North America are HIGHLY over used, and many cases unnecessary, and are killing hundreds of thousands each and every year.

So, pardon me, but in order to change this unconscious insanity, DON’T WE NEED TO STIR THE POT A LITTLE?  Shake things up, ruffle a few feathers and wake people up?  If I offended you– then GOOD.  At least someone is speaking up and saying we can’t keep going on this way.  If I don’t do it– then who will?  My intention is to create a healthier society.  Doesn’t positive change always start out with someone challenging a current system that is crumbling at it’s foundation?

One person in the audience got up and asked why there aren’t more doctors saying what I’m saying.  The answer is this:  Any Medical Doctor in the history of medicine who has stood up to challenge the current prevailing system has been burned at the stake.  It means being ridiculed by your peers.  They won’t let them “join in any reindeer games”.   Who wants that?  Unless the doctor is on a healing mission, most of them just bow down their heads and carry on, and collect their paychecks.  I can’t blame them, that’s why I’m not criticizing doctors per se.  Most of them do great work that can save lives.  I’m talking about the system of fighting disease rather than understanding why it’s there in the first place and correcting the cause.

Some of these doctors have quit medicine and gone and written books about what they have observed to be the sources of TRUE healing.  Can you guess what conclusions they came up with?  You guessed it:  Proper exercise, proper diet, and becoming free of disempowering emotional states of mind.  (And a clear nervous system.)  These doctors are my teachers and it’s their work I use as my inspiration.

Back to the email I got:

“Dr. Nima, I agree with most of what you say, but why is it that at the end of your stressbusters videos you say that I should ‘be careful for what I wish for because when I get it, it will present a whole new series of challenges in my life that will also suck’?.  That’s negative thinking, and if you think negatively, you will have negativity in your life… I disagree completely and think it’s rude.”

The intention is not to be negative.  It’s to be realistic.  Most of us live in this fantasy world that “if only I could____” or “I’ll be happy when_____” only to reach their goal and discover that it’s got it’s drawbacks too.  I’ve hit my head against a wall over and over again with that one.  We seek pleasure and avoid pain, and we assume that somewhere else is where this illusive “happiness” is going to be.  The unattainable promised land.  I’m here to break your illusion.  Wake up from your fantasy, people.  Life won’t be any better than it is in the Now.  Making more money means more responsibility.  A bigger home means more expenses.  A fancier car means more probability of break-ins and expensive repairs (I lived that one many times).  The promotion means higher expectations and pressures on you.  Does that mean we shouldn’t desire or set lofty goals or go after these things?  No.  It means that no matter what, you will have benefits and drawbacks.  Wisdom is recognizing this duality and not getting so emotional about it– high or low.  And be grateful for what you have now.  That will increase your probability of getting more anyway– as a bi-product of gratitude.  This would be cool for a disclaimer for a new drug called “Gratitude:”  Side effects include the attainment of more things to be grateful for.

That’s why I’m so grateful for my critics.  And as my supporters increase in numbers– so do my critics.

Thank you!

Make sure you catch the “outtakes” at the end.  Enjoy– may this video help guide you to balancing out your blood sugar and insulin levels and move you in the direction of a healthy diet.

Getting physically active actually SHUTS DOWN the stress response.  If you don’t make physical activity a part of your life, then there is no excuse for you if you start to fall ill and get sick.  Your physiology, in order to function at 100% requires exercise of some sort.  You can’t blame genes if you are ill.  But exercise doesn’t have to be boring.  Check this out!